..but trying to prove to a man what an amazing match you are for him by:
~ Doing “nice” things like helping him clean or cooking for him to make his life easier
~ Trying to help him solve his problems so he thinks you are a valuable asset
~ Sacrificing your own plans to be with him making him more important
~ In your mind, making him the prize that you are trying to win
In reality, these behaviors REPEL him and cause him to feel like he wants to run in the other direction, not value you… and he loses attraction for you.
Before I started working with Brenda my relationship with my boyfriend was a mess. My insecurities had pushed him away and he started telling me he didn’t think he was “enough” for me and suggested that maybe I should find someone else. What’s worse was 7 months into the relationship I discovered I had breast cancer and he pulled back more because he didn’t want to feel “responsible.” I was in a full panic, not eating or sleeping.
Well, I’m happy to report that things have completely turned around. With Brenda’s guidance and support, she prevented me from making some devastating mistakes and gave me the strength to walk away gracefully…without knowing how he’d respond and I was prepared to move forward without him.
Within a day he came back begging to see me and apologized for “checking out.” We are now working things out. He’s stepped up and is helping me get through my cancer and has become more attentive and loving.
No book or course could do what Brenda has done for me. I’ve read all kinds of books and took courses that were helpful but Brenda made all the difference. She helped me put lessons into practical use and tailored it to my unique situation. Having access to her via Voxer when I felt triggered or panicked was a lifesaver. Knowing information is one thing but putting it into practice is another and that’s what Brenda helps you do. I’m incredibly grateful for her.
Don’t wait. Don’t think. If your relationship is in jeopardy, hire her now. You won’t regret it.
Drea Fecht
CopywriterWomen who engage in the aforementioned tactics, being nice…to making believe nothing is wrong…to ultimatums, are surprised when instead of feeling cherished and adored they feel used and misunderstood and definitely not loved.
Doesn’t seem fair, does it?
They start questioning their worth and feel deep down inside something must be wrong with who they are, that they are unloveable…and dejected.
As time goes on, they feel like they are getting the short end of the stick…
They begin to wonder if they EVER are going to be fully adored and purely loved…just for being themselves.
It doesn’t have to be this way!
Rather, I guide my clients through a unique step-by-step system to go from feeling dejected, unworthy and just plain wanting to give up all the “games…” in dating and men in general…
To finally realize their happily-ever-after with a loving man in an amazing relationship based on real love and partnership…
Apply for a consultation here to learn more about the secrets that will get you what you want…
Looking forward to talking with you,
Brenda
P.S. If you feel like you’re at the end of your rope with no solution in sight, you don’t have to try and figure it out alone…let’s have a chat