Trusting ourselves completely doesn’t come naturally to most of us…there is a good reason for that!
Instead we question ourselves constantly, shold have done this, shouldn’t have said that…feeling something is wrong with us.
Like, when we want “more” from a man that that leaves us feeling “needy” and then feeling really off-kilter…questioning if we have unrealistic expectations…you just can’t tell if you’re on the mark or off of it.
Try this: the nasty voice that is putting you down…try imagining that you can take it out of your head and put it in your hand.
Then, say to it: “You know, you’re just being crabby for a reason and it’s a good reason…you never got the love and attention you wanted and your needs most certainly were not met.
OF COURSE you see everything in the negative!
So, what I’m going to do for you is we are going to go under this warm waterfall…(imagine…) in this beautiful lagoon and this water that is cascading all around us is embued with pure love…healing, loving, accepting…
You have always done your very best at the time…ALWAYS…and felt powerless so much of the time.
I can’t possibly be angry with you.
I love you.”
You know, we ALL have this aspect of us and it just churns this stuff out because it’s what it learned.
It means no harm, as a matter of fact, it is trying to help us. But, it’s trying to help us through CONTROL…it just doesn’t know any better.
So, starting today, can you see all you have been through and have some compassion for yourself?
That voice, as annoying as it’s been has done a lot of good for you…in fact it brought you to this very moment.
You are at a level of awareness right here and now most people will never know.
So, we’re going to plunge into the depths of you and I, together, through this journey of awareness and the first thing is to recognize that all the things you thought you know, the judgments of yourself and limitations you were putting on yourself can’t be true.
If you’d like to explore this more deeply regarding your unique situation please schedule a complimentary discovery call where I will give you immediately actionable advice to help you turn things around with your man!
Because, they were coming from the voice.
You can FEEL deeper than that level now and HONOR your desires and KNOW that you deserve them.
From this new vantage point your going to create new meanings out of everything…meanings that put you in the direction of what you want not negative mind stories.
That you can trust 100%.
Are you ready?
Stay tuned…
Love,
Brenda
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